Canconda

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[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I feel like they actually could make their own app with blackjack and hookers.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This. Surround yourself with good people and your life will be better in general.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Events in general because you all have at least 1 thing in common you can talk about (the event).

Also you need a reason to be there other than meeting women or tldr you'll give off ick vibes. It's like the desperate salesman who drives away customers.

Someone who's genuinely there to have fun will be much more attractive in general.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 66 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

My advice for anyone that wants a loving relationship is to expand your social circles. Spending time with friends, meeting their friends, and making new friends. Join a hobby club or a team sport. The person you meet through friends, who you already have commonalities with, is probably gonna be more compatible with you than the person you matched on tinder for superficial reasons.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

It's not gonna collapse until it becomes properly regulated. The rich have realized they can pump and dump crypto and leave retail investors holding the bag.

https://www.investopedia.com/news/bitcoins-2017-rise-was-market-manipulation-tether-study/

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 days ago

It'll work to because MAGA supporters will see the USD tanking and buy right into the grift.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago

"Our analysis reveals that receiving a smartphone before age 13 is associated with poorer mind health outcomes in young adulthood, particularly among females, including suicidal thoughts, detachment from reality, poorer emotional regulation, and diminished self-worth. These correlations are mediated through several factors, including social media access, cyberbullying, disrupted sleep, and poor family relationships. "

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

it is not stated what about social media is so harmful?

They're listing "mediating factors"; which is not exclusive to bad things even if it contributes to bad outcomes.

Our analysis reveals that receiving a smartphone before age 13 is associated with poorer mind health outcomes in young adulthood, particularly among females, including suicidal thoughts, detachment from reality, poorer emotional regulation, and diminished self-worth. These correlations are mediated through several factors, including social media access, cyberbullying, disrupted sleep, and poor family relationships.

What this is saying is:

"receiving a smartphone before age 13" + "social media access, cyberbullying, disrupted sleep, and poor family relationships" = "poorer mind health outcomes in young adulthood, particularly among females, including suicidal thoughts, detachment from reality, poorer emotional regulation, and diminished self-worth."

The cellphone in isolation isn't harmful. It's the access to social media intended for adults, the 24/7 avenue for cyberbullying, the physiological interruptions to circadian rhythm due to screen time, and exasperated emotional damage of poor family dynamics where cellphones replace face to face intimacy.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago

Thanks! Not what I'm looking for sadly. I like to engage in political discourse and a lot of the replies I get aren't worth reading.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It stops replies from showing up in your inbox... I know reddit has notifications but I use old. layout so I never saw them.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (5 children)

The one thing I miss from reddit was the ability to disable inbox replies.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ben Franklin using a kite and a key to slay Zeus and to steal electricity from him.

Well you better hope Michael Faraday didn't get any bonuses from St. Peter or else we'll be guessing what super powers he'll get from you!

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