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Huh, my psychologist said her daughter lives in Japan, is married to a Japanese man and they have a child together. But if she loses her job, then she'd have to leave Japan.

Trying to connect the dots now, cuz you say you can just permanently stay as spouse.

How did you secure permanent residency?

Would you get deported if you lose your job or are you secure in your immigration?

Nah the only filip that I know is our lord and saviour

Relatively close to Ghent, you trying to dox me? 🌝

I say too many socially unacceptable things on the internet, Timmy.

My boss would look like when signing my C4:

Asia is so interesting. My coworker went to Japan for 2 weeks this month and said that they'd just follow in line and stare at you if you're disturbing the public peace. They were sitting at the end of the seats at a station and supposedly they were expected to get up and move to another seat whenever someone else wanted to sit?

And everyone would just be organised in lines when waiting. Quite friendly people, but cold. Nobody would be speaking on public transport and it would be deemed impolite.

My wife from Indonesia also hates it that teenagers are loudly talking to eachother on public transport here in Belgium.

The whole expectation of respect is so different.

So I completely believe it, when a bus driver loses his pension package for stealing 7 USD.

Their streets in Japan are clean while there barely are any public garbage bins available.

Ah, I need to travel more. But where's the time. We're expecting a baby. Do people travel with a baby? Is it safe? Is it insane? I think we're just gonna have to stay put for 3 years or so.

Are you not? Why else are you so ashamed?

Shoulda just killed him to be honest, but oh well

Your husband could try and get a job in Europe. Here in flanders there's quite a lot of walkability. They are creating bike lanes. I'm lucky that I can bike to work 15 km without interacting much with cars.

I could suggest Indonesia, for 100k euros you have a nice apartment with access to a gym and swimming pool. But I don't know about the needs of your child. They don't really speak English there either, but Bahasa is pretty easy to learn.

Personally I'd go to Batam, Indonesia. Right under Singapore. Live in the center.

For walkability it's bad there kinda. And hot. Be careful of things like construction work. Can't really know if it's all safe.

Bought my wife a home bike so that she could do some cardio while I worked. It's good for the winter, it gets pretty cold here for her. She's used to Indonesia and in Belgium it gets to 0 to minus 10 degrees in the winter months.

It's a good option because you can read something while doing that. Basically you can be on the internet.

When you're more fit, I'd suggest rope skipping. However it can be hard on the joints. It's very good cardio though. Boxers do it all the time.

You also can buy some kettlebells. I have one of 16 and 20 kg at home, it takes no space at all. I use them for shoulder raises. They can be used for swings which is great cardio.

You can do bodyweight squats. I do 5 sets of 50 on a Sunday when I'm "too lazy" to fix up the weight for deadlift.

In all these years of working out, I quickly made the investment to have a home gym. Not because it's cheaper in the long term, but because it's far easier to actually do the workout.

The most difficult part about working out at a gym is getting to the gym. It feels like a drag. Sure, once at the gym it's all great, but getting there the next time is once again a drag.

About food I don't know shit though. I consume a lot of calories. Me working out and stuff like that is what I call damage control. I'm a stereotypical Belgian. I eat a lot of fries with mayo and drink strong beer.

Working out, and likely food, is all about mental stuff. Truly it's half the battle. Need to figure out how to do a routine and keep to it. Like right now I'm going to do barbell rows because it's Thursday. I don't even view it as an option, it's just what my Thursday looks like.

Good luck, getting back into shape is always difficult. But you know that after 2 months you'll have a lot of energy. Then the trick is to keep working out just to keep that amount of energy.

They'll sell to Europe don't ya worry

You're unemployed