I got a ridiculous response about how the "offending" instance only had 165 users so no problem.
What a fucking shit bird and I'm fucking pissed I just donated to the server on the last ask.
I've moved servers, I don't need to expanding the only apparent measurement of the worth of an instance. Been on .world for 3 years, but they can go piss up a rope if that's how they judge the fediverse and want to use admins like these two.
Letting a single admin unilaterally decide to defederate another instance because someone hurt their fee-fees and then never tried to contact the admin team itself tells you what's going on over there. Then this other twatwaffle defends them with that weaksauce explanation. Of course, they'll still be there going forward.
As I said in a followup comment, now I'm embarrassed I donated a few times in the 3 years I was there. I want my money back.