I agree with everything else but the starting bit about only starting conversations when you'd also do it with a guy: if you're not into guys... like on a dating site you'd not equally talk to the men, why at a sports club if you're wanting a relationship with a woman? If you think someone's fun and attractive in a way you'd simply not have with a bloke, hecking yes talk to them where appropriate and be friends (if they also want to be) and see if they really match and are also into you etc.
I agree with everything else but the starting bit about only starting conversations when you'd also do it with a guy: if you're not into guys... like on a dating site you'd not equally talk to the men, why at a sports club if you're wanting a relationship with a woman? If you think someone's fun and attractive in a way you'd simply not have with a bloke, hecking yes talk to them where appropriate and be friends (if they also want to be) and see if they really match and are also into you etc.