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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’?
(www.theguardian.com)
this post was submitted on 17 Mar 2026
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Wife is quite a different magnitude of commitment, in comparison to a non-exclusive non-girlfriend partner.
No question. But on the spectrum of basic decency, the minimum you owe to another group member from the get-go is as @captainlezbian@lemmy.world laid out; you stick together.
You're over here saying it's a bare minimum assumption that group members stick together on a hike while simultaneously telling me in another conversation that it's the woman's fault for not communicating that she expected them to hike together?
Are you fucking serious?
As far as I know, that particular hike is very popular and very very safe though
Every hike has the potential for danger.
Everything has a possibility for danger though, even staying home.
The most dangerous thing they did that day was driving to and from the hike.
So like, some lady I'm on an early date with? Yeah no different in general rule. If I take you into a situation that you aren't individually comfortable in I'm an asshole for ditching you there alone, even if we decide we hate each other in the meantime
Doesn’t mean it’s ok to abandon your hiking partner whilst on the hike.
Like seriously, you think that it's ok to treat someone terribly on a hike as long as they're only a casual partner?
If they say you can go on ahead, it depends how well you know the other person.
The people I hike with, if they say that to me, I take them at their word. Maybe they would feel happier and more relaxed, if they hike at their own pace. It's not abandonment, It is communication.
Some people get really anxious if they don't go for the summit or objective right away and some people like me prefer to go more slowly and take their time. It doesn't make sense to me to force both people into a compromise if you'd be happier walking your own hike.
If somebody said it and didn't mean it, that's something different. Or maybe they meant it, but they're inexperienced, and would regret actually being left to hike on their own. That's also something different.
One thing that you never do though is to hike past a trail juncture without waiting for your partner to catch up. But I guess even then, if you've been on the same hike multiple times and you have a plan for where you're going to meet back up, even that is okay.
Depends on the hike's safety.
But a wife gets a higher priority for safety than a casual partner to you?
What? No it isn't. This isn't about personal relationships, it's about responsibility during a dangerous hike.
By the way: this particular hike is very very very safe.