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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’? (www.theguardian.com)
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MJ calls what happened to her in Zion national park “small ‘T’ trauma”. She knows women have experienced worse from their partners. But she still feels the anger of being left behind on a hike by her now ex. “It brings up stuff in my body that maybe I have not cleared out yet,” she said.

Five years ago, MJ and a new partner – he was not exactly her boyfriend, and the pair were not exclusive – traveled from Los Angeles to Utah for an adventure getaway. MJ, who is 38 and works in PR, was looking forward to exploring Zion’s striking scenery; its vast sandstone canyon and pristine wading trails were on the list. But on the morning of their big hike, MJ was not feeling well. She could not shake the feeling that something was “off”; indeed, MJ would learn on this trip that her partner was seeing other women.

As they made their way up Angel’s Landing, MJ’s partner started walking faster than her. “I could tell it was getting on his nerves that I was slow,” she said. “I was like, ‘Fuck it, just go ahead of me.’” He did without hesitation.

When she caught up at the top of the mountain, they took a picture together. Then her partner hiked down the mountain with a woman he had met on the way up, leaving MJ to finish by herself. They broke up shortly after that trip. (MJ asked to be referred to by her initials for the sake of speaking openly about a past relationship.)

Last month, MJ opened TikTok and heard the phrase “alpine divorce”, a label she now attaches to her experience in Zion.

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[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I think the main takeaway here is that alpine divorce is an intent to murder. And yeh, it’s sexism. Not exactly in the way you’re putting it tho.

When they abandoned First Nations in Saskatchewan, and one made it back alive to tell people what was happening just like this woman is, the takeaway wasn’t that hey , gee, ya know they can survive being abandoned …it’s that they were abandoned to begin with WITH A VERY SPECIFIC INTENT TO DIE OUT THERE.

I think you not noticing that is the overall disgusting misogyny that society regularly overlooks and minimizes women’s right to life and safety should be considered not just that she can do it herself it’s that no one gives a shit if there was a chance she didn’t survive and how.

This shouldn’t be dismissed or minimized.

[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 9 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I think the main takeaway here is that alpine divorce is an intent to murder.

Assuming that women alone in the mountains will die is the sexist part. There are to aspects of this story:

  • men are breaking up with women in the mountains - if you can prove this is something men do but women don't it's a valid take. You can call it 'alpine divorce'. It's weird behavior. It would be interesting to learn why it happens (if it a real phenomenon)

  • more experienced hiking partners are leaving less experienced hiking partners alone in the mountains - this is shitty and dangerous no matter the gender. It's about basic safety in the mountains

Both are valid concerns. It becomes sexists when you combine the two for no reason and assume women are always the less experienced person in the mountains. When I'm reading about it I'm imagining two adults going their way in the mountains. I don't immediately assume one is responsible for the safety of the other only because of their genders. Because I'm not sexist.

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world -2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

The fuq did i just read. Looks like a manifesto written by a psychopath

Begone stupid bot.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Are you on drugs or something?