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I have a coworker travelling there in July. Unwillingly, I've been more or less been kept in the loop what preparing the trip implies and I'm pretty horrified.

Up until now, these are some of demands made (and accepted):

  • full disclosure and acess to social networks
  • criminal record
  • recent photo, perfectly groomed and in the attire to be used to travel there. No deviations will be tolerated from the supplied photo.
  • complete list of possible identifying marks on the body, with pictures (tattoos, moles, melanistic spots, scars, etc)
  • name and social networks of parents, siblings and other close relatives, including children.

The person is separated with two children; this is causing a lot of friction.

  • has already been warned an interview of up to two hours will be held upon arrival.

The person speaks broken english at best.

  • disclosure of place of employment and other connections to public organizations

They are connected to a local soccer club and a youth sports association.

To add to all of this, this isn't a standard caucasian human but someone who has looks that can be taken for someone from the middle east, slightly darker shade of skin included.

Flying from southern europe straight to Florida.

I'm concerned. I would not go, full stop. They have people waiting there for them but nonetheless. Considering the heated state of affairs, it is something I consider of not easily to overlook risk.

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[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 102 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Don't go. At all, for any reason. If what has already transpired during Trump's second term hasn't been enough reason to avoid travel, its on him if anything bad happens.

Can't say you weren't warned.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've tried easing the notion to my coworker but the opportunity to travel abroad, even more because the tickets have been paid for by others, is too big to miss. Their words, not mine.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 38 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Why doesn't he just fly to El Salvador directly and save time. I'm a Caucasian male and I wouldn't go to the US right now, he definitely shouldn't risk it.

I'd be problematic anyway because I genuinely don't have a social media presence, which I'm sure they would find suspicious. And I'm pretty sure my 70-year-old parents don't have one either.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 11 points 1 week ago

I was just mentioning that as well. What could be the reception of someone with no social presence and no electronics upon arriving? I'd refuse giving details of relatives as well.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Your friend needs to ask the people who paid for the tickets if they'll pay for legal representation and to get him released from whatever incarceration awaits him if he falls foul of the regime there. Assume this could run to hundreds of thousands of US dollars.

Also, given your description of him, I think that's incredibly likely to happen.

They'll say he's guilty of something, so those friends won't be sure whether he acted illegally or not.

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[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 67 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Realistically, most people entering as tourists need to be concerned with CBP asking for unlocked access to your phone, which will disappear into a back room for a few minutes while they presumably steal all your credentials. The broader scare stories about detention, interrogation, and deportation are really very rare.

I have some (stupid) non-white-passing family that have been travelling to the US (including Florida) regularly and they have had zero issues.

I would absolutely not go. Full stop. But when you look at the real numbers, tourist entry into the US isn’t down all that much and most people who desire to go don’t have any issues with immigration.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 75 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

You used to hear about needing a burner phone when visiting China, that it is now also required to visit the US is insane.

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[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The phone part I wasn't aware. There's another reason to never keep sensible info in a phone and commit all accesses to memory.

[–] MolochHorridus@piefed.social 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Don’t take your phone with you. Put your sensitive information and credentials into Bitwarden. Buy a cheap smartphone from the U.S., install Bitwarden and use it. When leaving, log out of Bitwarden, delete the app, reset the phone and leave it behind.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 9 points 1 week ago

I am not going anywhere.

But you made me wonder. What would be the reaction if someone went there and not carried a cellphone nor any other electronic equipment? And now I'm thinking about my own personal use of it. I can survive without internet for long bouts and my most important credentials are commited to memory, along with important numbers.

What could happen if someone just arrived at the gates with two book, a notebook and perhaps a couple of mechanical pencils and a pen?

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 54 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Even Americans, who aren't Caucasian, are being put into ICE detention (or deported). The US is a dangerous place for anyone with darker skin. Even worse for visitors. Not even safe for Canadians.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

They start with the dark skins and then they turn on the rest.

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[–] Meat_Of_Nan@lemmy.world 47 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I live in America but I'm fairly disconnected from everything that's happening because I live in a very isolated area living a fairly isolated life. However from everything I'm hearing from the news, if I was in your position, I would not step foot here. The worst people imaginable are running the country and it's genuinely not safe for even the people already living here.

I definitely would not give them any of the information you listed, that's insane. These people cannot be trusted.

Unless it's of vital life and death importance that you come here, it's not worth the risk right now. Hopefully MAGA dies and sane people start running the country again, but right now I cannot in good consciousness recommend that you come here.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I am not going there. Full stop. But I work with this person on daily basis. I'm human. I get concerned.

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[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 43 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Forget it. Even before this shit happened, a middle eastern looking friend of mine had to stop going to US conferences because he would always get turned away at the border.

The person speaks broken english at best.

This makes everything that came before even more dangerous. One misunderstanding and they will put you in a holding cell for weeks.

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[–] 9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works 39 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I have a white coworker who goes to the states almost every weekend to visit family... probably low risk since they're white...

Here's where is gets wild:

My manager is a muslim, clearly visibly middle eastern. Goes to NYC for meeting twice a month.

My friend is pakistani, muslim, middle name is mohammed right there in his passport. Goes to lots of midwest states for meetings at least once a month

Neither on has had any problems at the border and they tell me that my apprehensions about travel to the US are blown out of proportion....

I still wont go down there, but i hope for their sakes that they are right.

so basically 3/3 people i know who travel regularly to the states have no problems... clearly ymmv.

Low probability of incident, but very serious consequences if it happens

[–] classic@fedia.io 41 points 1 week ago

Low probability of incident, but very serious consequences if it happens

That sums it up. OP's friend will probably be fine. It's just, if not they're not, it's really gonna suck

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[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 39 points 1 week ago (5 children)

After reading all these comments, the impression I'm getting is: shithole country

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

At this current time, I wouldn't recommend it. Generally speaking the people are welcoming and the things to see are plentiful.

But the issues visitors will run into aren't with the people or landmarks. I don't want to deal with law enforcement here and I'm a white male middle class citizen.

[–] Tiral@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

It is, don't go there. I mean I love it here, but you wouldn't.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

don't, just don't.

if you have to, refuse.

stay out of the US right now. not because it's particularly unsafe to be inside the country, but because it's incredibly difficult to safely get inside.

not only that, but going to Florida is like starting foreplay with licking a dirty asshole. some might be into that, but everyone will end up with shit mouth by the end of the night.

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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You didn't say why they're coming. That matters. If they're coming for soccer-related stuff, they may take a while to interview but they should pass through. In general, the US has millions of people traveling in and out of it per day. Most people don't have any issue. It's just that now, instead of only suspect people having issues, any random person can have an issue because of immigration enforcement quotas. The officers generally don't care about you, the individual they arrest, at all. They arrest white American citizens without any legal authority. They're just boosting their arrest quota. So, if something happens, it'll be by random chance of the officer not caring about their job.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 8 points 1 week ago

The person is travelling for leisure, visiting relatives of their current partner, that live there. I've been told they've been talking about going to watch a world cup match but the tickets are incredibly expensive and hard to get. That is the closest to the soccer connection it gets.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago

If I was him, I would not go. Simple as that. The US is no safe place for travel.

[–] AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That list is an automatic no from me. America is FAR down on the list of countries I would like to see one day, but as long as those requirements exist, absolutely not.

The US literally has nothing that would be worth this

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

No country is worth this. And even North Korea, someone shared here some time ago, is not that invasive. They do give you a nanny to escort you around, you can go everywhere, you can't take pictures or film but they don't care about what you do in your country.

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[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 26 points 1 week ago (11 children)

2/10 if you're white. 5/10 if you're not.

[–] lando55@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 week ago (3 children)

At this point I wake up every day and wonder when being trans will be labeled a crime. They've come close to doing so, they've already set the precedent that they're allowed to detransition you as punishment for a crime.

[–] DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

They've threatened to put AuDHD people on a list before too. The US is dangerously close to causing a second Holocaust with how they've acted thus far to any minorities.

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[–] TronBronson@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I wouldn’t do it lol. I’m from the USA and I don’t even wanna leave because I don’t wanna deal with our fucking customs guys.

[–] ContriteErudite@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Pre-COVID (Trump's first time) I took a trip to Europe. All of the European customs officials were polite and professional, did what they needed to do, and still made me feel welcome in their country. When I returned to America, the customs official checking me back into the country was mean-mugging the entire time, rude, and acted like I wasn't welcome back to my own home.

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[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago

Clearly I'm ignorant due to not traveling out of the country in decades, but those demands are shocking to me. We really have devolved into a fascist shithole, huh? They'll probably be fine, but I certainly wouldn't risk it.

[–] DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Very. It's even dangerous to live here as a citizen now on multiple levels, let alone visit from another country. I'd flee in a heartbeat to a country that hasn't turned into a dictatorship yet if I could.

[–] TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Other people have amazing reasons not to come, so Im not going to add on to that regard. But if your coworker chooses to come, here are some points to take into account when traveling

  • Don't make it look like you going to be staying for a while.
  • Be the gray man: don't take it literally, but don't dress fancy or to rugged. Blend in. If someone takes a photo of you walking by someone else, you don't want them to say "yeah he went over there".
  • be situationally aware: don't be the bumbling idiot with a phone in there hand and earbuds in when walking in public. Keep your head up, wear sunglasses so people can't see where your looking. Stay alert.
  • avoid the bad areas: do extensive research on the area your going.
  • Cash is king: harder to track and create a profile about your purchases with cash. Don't carry to much otherwise that is a good questioning point
  • shit hits the fan: if you noticed your being followed, stay calm and keep moving, make it look like your stoping in a store and go out the back door. Keep a change of clothes, hat and sunglasses. I'm not an expert on evasion but there are plenty of guides out there
  • don't bring your personal electronics, use 2nd hand burners for your travels, just use them a bit before coming as to not raise suspicion.
[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

The best thing I've ever heard in advice for almost anything has always been "look like you're supposed to be there".

I took a work trip to NYC, I've never been to NYC. I was asked directions 5 times.

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[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

I'm a white Texan and now try to avoid flying anywhere, even in the United States, due to ICE's presence at airports. I'm glad your coworker is such an optimist and sees this as an opportunity, but that's completely illogical. If someone were to tell me that they paid for me to have a one-on-one experience with a caged lion, I'd only see that as an opportunity to practice saying "no." Even if the lion told me it has countless job opportunities for me.

[–] OriginEnergySux@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Cheers for posting this. My wife and I wanted to plan a trip to finally see New York but after seeing this and researching that this is actually true, we'll just visit somewhere else.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Florida. Yikes.

I'll put it this way. My partner and I live in Canada, but her parents live in the sticks in NY. They are as white as you can get. They recently visited and were stopped at the border and interrogated, not by the Canadian Border Patrol but by ICE at an exit point. They were ultimately ok but it spooked the hell out of them. Everyone involved is a US citizen fwiw

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Not dystopian at all. Go enjoy America... /s

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[–] akwd169@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Wow thats really fucked up considering I could jump in my car and drive across the border into the US right now and the border guards most likely wouldnt look at me twice

We went across last year twice and they just wanted to know why and where were staying, didnt even ask for proof

So its highly dependant on your origin country (im Canadian) and skin colour (im pasty white)

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[–] Sineljora@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah, the problem is even if you don’t encounter problems at the border, there are still random blacked out SUVs driving around abducting, raping, and deporting people, facial recognition with errors that could flag you (publicly accessible too), and at least a 1/3 of everyone you see is a MAGAt who are notoriously violent. The most important problem is that by going, they accept and support these realities with their money.

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 10 points 1 week ago

In that interview, they will ONLY be looking for reasons to deny her entry, not to let her in, and they will find something. Then all her expense and trouble will be wasted. I wouldn't bother.

[–] someguy7734206@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

The Canadian travel advisories site claims that it is generally safe to travel to the US: https://travel.gc.ca/destinations/united-states

Frankly, I think they are bullshitting because of Canada's diplomatic position with the US.

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