Libb

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[–] Libb@jlai.lu 11 points 2 days ago

I always had a thing for certain traits and features often associated with Asian women (no, not the Hollywood kind of Asian women). It doesn't mean I 'm looking at Asian women with lust in my eyes nor that those traits are exclusive to 'Asian women'... whatever that means. I mean, I'm French and there is no such thing as a French woman or man.

For me, it just means that very early on (aka, I was still a little boy) I felt more attracted to those traits than to others and I could find them more frequently associated with 'Asian women'. Where does this attraction comes from? No idea, it just is.

And in case anyone is wondering, nope my spouse is not Asian and we've been doing fine for the 25 years and counting we've been together ;)

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 25 points 2 days ago (2 children)

As an ex addict to (too many) substances (not marijuana) I can easily see a few cons regarding drug usage but the real pro, if I had to pick one, would be to remove all that money from drug dealers.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 27 points 3 days ago

I want a serious answer, how should I find people online to talk to about anything really other than politics?

You don't.

You don't find people online (or IRL) waiting for strangers to start a discussion on some random topic you feel like talking about. Because people, unlike trolls, are busy with their live.

What you can find is people willing to discuss with someone they find interesting or, with any luck, intriguing on whatever topic you both are interested in.

So, what are you interested in? Have you any hobbies, interests, passions? Find small communities around those topics you're interested in, and start posting. Do the work to show you're there and that, maybe, you're worth discussing with.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There is a good likelihood that whoever comes after him will be a lot more competent.

CoughVanceCough. He is bright & very smart, powerful, and young. His Munich speech for example, even though too many of my EU fellow citizens (and representatives as well) dismissed it as non-sense and mean, was quite articulated (very hypocritical too, but that's not the point) and, well, quite informative on what the USA want to do and what the USA will do.

And so is Bessent, in a less rhetorician way even though I don't imagine him becoming a leader but that's just my gut feeling ;)

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 45 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I’m not American so have given up trying to understand the actions of a mad man.

The issue is not that it's the action of one mad man.

The dude has been elected by a lot of people thinking that his ideas were the way to go. To me that's the real issue. Trump himself could vanish he would as quickly be replaced by some variant with very similar ideas... And that wouldn't change much (save maybe that this other person would be less orange and less illiterate? Maybe)

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 1 points 1 week ago

I wake up every day between 4-5AM (I like how quiet the city is this early in the morning, it's my favorite working time), and I never needed much sleep to begin with, so I may not be the best suited to tell you how to sleep better but:

  • Does it happen yearly? Change of season can do a lot...
  • As other have suggested: stress is a frequent explanation.
  • Have you changed anything in your evening habits? I don't know, more screen, new food, new anything? Or stopped doing something else?
[–] Libb@jlai.lu 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've got popcorn, anyone want some?

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