How about gaming?
Ask Lemmy
A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions
Rules: (interactive)
1) Be nice and; have fun
Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, toxicity and dog-whistling are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them
2) All posts must end with a '?'
This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?
3) No spam
Please do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.
4) NSFW is okay, within reason
Just remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com.
NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].
5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions.
If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.
6) No US Politics.
Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !uspolitics@lemmy.world
7) No Hit-and-Run questions.
Please don't delete your post for no apparent reason. If you plan on deleting a question later, say so in the post, or if you feel that you have a good reason to remove it, message a mod beforehand. It's not fair to the ones who took their time to answer, and it's not in the spirit of the community.
8) No Bots.
Posts or comments from bots, LLM's, AIs, Neural Networks, Transformers, or Marvin the Paranoid Android are not welcome in AskLemmy. Real humans only please.
Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.
Partnered Communities:
Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu
What about fixing things? like clocks or small electronics. Lots of places have small community groups now.
Maybe a worm farm?
How about whittling or crochet?
Mushrooming. Cuts expenses, and extremely rewarding. Start with one safe type, learn the more toxic ones, and build on that. There are probably organisations or people in your community that can help you get started.
Geocaching
This! Very easy to get started (finding maybe not as much) and only costs something if you pay for premium.
It's not expensive. But there's a cost.
Perler beads. Spent like $20 for a bunch of colors.
Then made various video game sprites like Mario and Sonic.
What hobbies have you liked in the past or have sounded fun? That helps everyone pick a direction.
Geocaching has been fun for me. Gardening but, I've gone full !nolawns@slrpnk.net lol, lately I've gotten into retro website building in NeoCities.org relearning HTML, CSS and Java script has been fun.
If you have a PC checking the steam sales for cheap games is nice. I just finished my 3rd round of stardew valley.
You can volunteer. If there's a habitat for humanity near you you can even learn new skills.
You are my spirit animal. Keep up the good hobbying.
Do you compost bro? I have also just started my Geocity journey.
My focus this year has been on self hosting and getting off big tech.
Motorcycle pole-vaulting. On ice!
You could always make extruded incense sticks. You can get started with the spices in your kitchen.
I was thinking of taking up birdwatching, maybe that?
If you live in a city with a parks and recreation department, check out their website for classes and activities.
If it's a sport that requires equipment, such as racquets or bats, loaners are usually available from the department or other participants.
You really won't know what your mind and your body enjoys until you actually try it, so just YOLO random activities, but keep it safe of course. Avoid stuff like highrise roof edge parkour, and you'll be okay.
aw man those parkour videos look so cool though lol
thanks so much for the suggestions 👍
Also, I hate to say this, but you will likely enjoy something that one of your parents enjoys.
Obviously stay away from genetically disposed addictions like heavy drinking or gambling, but doing the positive hobbies that one or both of your parents enjoy can let you interact with and understand your parents, which is a good thing now and later in life.
If you’re in reasonable shape and have the right attitude, regular parkour can be fantastic. My kids had a blast taking parkour classes at local playgrounds: think “the floor is lava” applied to fences, benches, playground equipment.
You do have to be prepared for some painful falls though, even from ground level.
Those videos do look really exciting, but they almost never show that last attempt. That kind of video gets banned.
thats true
retro handhelds.
u can start with getting an R36S for like 40 bucks + a 20 dollar sd card from a reputable brand, just make sure to consult the handhelds wiki for trusted sellers so you won't get a clone (almost all of the R36S devices sold are clones that have dogshit hardware and often don't work with a custom OS) and know how to install the OS on new card
it can run nes, snes, all the gameboys, sega genesis, even some ps1, psp and pc ported games. you'll have to get roms to play the games though but it's up to you how you're going to go about that
Definitely read this as "retro hand granedes" and was like woah man, OP wasn't looking for suicide help! Jesus I need to go to sleep lol
Zero cost:
- Running
- Yoga
- Bodyweight exercise
Zero cost if you have a library card:
- Reading (fiction)
- Reading (non-fiction)
- Online discussion
Price of pencil and paper:
- Writing (creative)
- Writing (journaling)
- Drawing
Fairly cheap:
- Music (playing)
- Music (listening)
- Painting
Having fun isn't hard if you have a library card
Explore your neighborhood
- geocaching
- contributing to open street maps (Street complete)
- photography with your cell phone
I almost commented earlier and suggested Street Complete myself, on the grounds that if someone is sad, which OP said he was, getting outside and getting exercise can be helpful.
I just want to point out that any hobby you engage in for entertainment without it feeling like a chore is by definition not boring (to you). Personally I couldn't see myself in a situation where I'd be collecting stamps, because I would probably find it very boring. But others enjoy it, so it's a valid un-boring hobby, just not for me.
Reading or chess are pretty cheap.
Astronomy is as cheap as your local observatory's entry fee (and the gas to drive there) (assuming you have a local observatory)
That's very little to go on, so my suggestively is reading.
Very cheap to get into as well as something that's is easy to pickup and let rest. Plenty of free options around too.
I believe many libraries have ebooks now too, which makes it even easier if transposition is an issue!
t r a n s p o s e
Lmao, I'm leaving it. It's better this way.
May I suggest simple crafting, like whittling, ancient/native pottery, wood carving, paper basket weaving, origami, crochet (or the slightly more addictive and expensive knitting), braiding, weaving, macrame, yarn spinning, decorative knotworking, flower pressing, dyemaking, hand dying, flower arrangement, make walking canes, etc?
Or maybe an instrument? Someone mentioned guitar, but why not harmonica, ukulele, bongos, simple percussives, or why not take up singing, there's typically a choir almost everywhere, or you could try solo, or whistling, or yodeling.
Or maybe take up gardening/growing? In pots, hydroponically, maybe on a growing lot, or someone's yard?
Or take up community projects, like either sanctioned or guerilla gardening, greening, forestry, litter picking, maintaining communal spaces, volunteer, start a community project (pollination diversity, bee keeping, growing lots, food drive, food forestry)
Or take up a cause? Build community, take affirmative action, demonstrate, protest, coordinate, communicate, with an established org, or on your own?
Maybe the outdoors could entice? Take up walking, ornithology, watch bats, discover new insects, take up chabana/ikebana, learn to forage, learn survival skills, go hiking, stack rocks, track animals, learn trapping, get into scouting, make bark boats, learn to skip rocks, climb trees, jump in puddles, pretend (or practice) animistic rituals, feel rain on naked skin, sleep under a bare sky, pick skulls, horns and bones to craft with.
Perhaps create stories, tell stories, write poetry, learn magic, juggle, poi, take up clowning, go swing/country/folk/traditional/ballroom/social dancing, try Butoh, write sketches, join a theatre, start a business, take up decorating, or just embrace whimsy?
I can also warmly recommend trying a new thing every week/month/period and see what sticks and not.
There are exactly zero boring hobbies, through the right eyes or right lens.
boring as you use it, is a term which works best when describing a person. Take from that what you will.
Well you could start drilling a hole down into the earth for fun. That would be a boring hobby...
Electric drum kit is fun, cathartic, and quiet outside your headphones. Chilis are easy to grow, and they certainly entertain the mouth. Running saved my life. Tennis balls from the machine launcher. Rock wall. Skateboard. People love pickleball, but you need friends. Darts. 3D printer. Electric piano. Cooking class you can meet a girl, cook for her, get back rubs. Singing lessons. Fetish exploration. You got this.
Origami. Very cheap to begin with, still cheap when you're deep into it. Unless you got so deep that you're travelling the world to go to conventions but that's another story, the biggest expense is buying books once you decide to have them physically.
Don't use printer paper, kraft paper is cheap and works perfectly. Only down side is having to cut it.
I'll second that. Got into this a few years back and its so low profile other than getting nice paper every now and then, its really great. That said, if you are not a patient person, I am not sure it is for you.
I add in a link to my favourite site with mostly easy diagrams https://en.origami-club.com/index.html All free to look at.
Cycling: Get a bicycle and start exploring your area. It doesn't need to be a nice bike; check garage sales and Craigslist and get whatever fits comfortably. Wander off your usual routes and you will encounter new corners of your town that you never knew existed.
Music: Pick up a used acoustic guitar, electric keyboard, banjo, or whatever you can find. The world is full of inexpensive books and free YouTube videos to teach new students.
Drawing: Make doodles, little comics, or sketches of whatever is around you. A pencil and paper are all you need. Look up YouTube videos for daily sketching practice exercises.
Amateur radio: An entry-level license involves a basic quiz and a nominal fee. Cheap radios can be had for less than US$100. If you meet an old timer with a garage full of gear they might hand you a pile of old equipment for free.
Of course, any of these can become expensive and time-consuming hobbies if you go down the rabbit hole. But that just means you have found something you love.
Reading. You got a library near you? Great, you're set. You don't have a library near you? E-books.
Everyone has a library card at Anna's Archive
Bird-watching or star-gazing or both. A pair of binoculars is all you really need for either. You can print some stuff off online if you wanna get fancier with it.
So here's the problem: you can't adopt someone else's hobby, and find it interesting by proxy. Any activity (not just hobbies) can only be "not boring" if you yourself are actively interested in it for its own sake, not just as a time sink. Your attention and investment in the activity is what makes it interesting and engaging. You get out of it what you put into it. Low-energy, low-investment time sinks are entertainments, not hobbies. Play some video games, no shame in that, it's relaxing, inexpensive, easy to start and you can pick it up and put it down whenever.
To really give you an answer on a hobby, we need to know about what you're interested in. Hobbies are about developing some kind of skill, for your own benefit and growth as a person (probably not financial benefit). Hobbies are about exercising your personal passions on your own terms, with no obligations except those which you set for yourself. What kinds of skills do you have as a starting point, and what do you wish you had? What kinds of activities do you enjoy doing? What kinds of activities do you actually make time in your life to do, on your own, regardless of whether other people are involved?
If you have a mediocre PC there are a ton of non-graphically intensive cheap indie games on steam. Rimworld is $30. Stuff like VR Chat is free.
Painting. Can be done for relatively cheap and scales up to a lot.
Birdwatching. If you have a smartphone you can get the merlin app and start from there. Collect 'em all like pokemon.
Photography. Really helps you see everything with a new perspective. Learn natural scapes, urban scapes. Interesting people. Flowers, Social activism documenting homeless, or cool or interesting people if you live in an urban freakshow. You can make the ordinary extraordinary.
Needle felting. Like ten bucks for some needles, some wool, and a sponge. It's a no-skill-required art form that consists entirely of stabbing.
Honestly, photography.
You probably already have a smartphone with a decent camera.
Start experimenting with framing, focusing, and other settings.
You can get some great photos with a smartphone
Board games. I would not call it very cheap but probably possible to buy some on the second hand markets. And does get me out of the house and socialise a little. Probably the hardest part is finding people to play with tho (can try online, maybe there are some board games group in the area)
There are few very good solo games I would recommend:
- Thousand years vampire is a journaling game about being a vampire through history.
- Under falling skies is kind of a space invaders/independence day.
- Sleeping Gods is a sandbox game where you have a ship crew in a big world to explore, trying to wake up the gods.
- Waste Knights is similar to Sleeping Gods, but in a Mad Max apocalyptic wasteland world.
- Witchcraft! Is about witches and pretty fantastic solo.
- Maquis is a neat quick game about running the Resistance in an occupied French town.
- In the Ashes is a pretty fantastic game-book and an easy recommendation for anyone that likes fantasy books but also likes games.