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[–] Naive@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Live the life, stupid.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

"I don't remember you" was my idea to say the last 5 years have completely changed my life, but I'd probably assume I got Alzheimers ahead of schedule. One sentence is tough.

"It worked out" feels like what if want to hear, but that ignores growing global and national issues. Might even make me lazier, believing in some grand natural path, creating a paradox.

I could send details on the job move that made life better, but I'm on the path that took me out of that job already, so why try to change it?

Are monetary moves the only thing that would work for me? Not to change my route, but give me some more padding today?

[–] gastroglizzy@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

Stay home all day long, no matter what, on January 3rd, 2022.

[–] crystalmerchant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Do everything you can to save the money faster to buy the house sooner

[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"Do drugs don't drink, bro."

I probably would have ended up drinking and doing even more drugs I think...

[–] galacticworm@piefed.social 3 points 1 month ago

She is seeing someone else, start planning

[–] terranoid@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 month ago

"I'm going in dry"

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Move in with your aunt and uncle now, before the dementia gets any worse.

[–] dektep@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

stay single

[–] LeftReddit2@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

"Hi, how ya doing?"

[–] neidu4@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

"It'll all work out brilliantly"

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Eat the mushrooms

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

"Fuck you, loser!"

[–] Hadriscus@jlai.lu 2 points 1 month ago

Start trying now, it's going to take longer than expected

Enjoy the time you have with your family, they won't last forever.

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

Grow a spine and book the therapy appointment.

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Buy a house right now.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago

Don't sell your Bitcoin yet.

[–] metalaco@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Buy ram and nvidia stock

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

Buy gamestop, study in cafes not uni. Also :3.

[–] RecursiveParadox@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

Shit's about to hit the fan from multiple directions and all at once. There is nothing you can do to stop it, but instead focus on how to handle it. In a more healthy way.

[–] TonyOstrich@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago
[–] tigermountain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Do not do the thing you did on June 18th 2026.

[–] stopforgettingit@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

He is not worth it. Send it back to when ever, it will always make sense.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Go to a therapist your insurance will take.

[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

You'll survive.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Don't move cities stop ignoring her red flags and go to the fucking gym

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